Favortism

On Sunday, 11/24/13 our morning church service was about chapter 2 of the book of James. I have read this chapter many times before but yesterday’s reading hit me like a ton of bricks. It hit me so hard that when the preacher went on past verse 10, I didn’t hear what he was saying. Here are the verses that specifically touched my heart:

My brothers and sisters, believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ must not show favoritism. Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in filthy old clothes also comes in. If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,” have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts? (vs 8) If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, “Love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing right. But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers. (James 2:1-4, 8-9 NIV)

For many, many years I had a VERY judgmental heart. I would rarely say what I was thinking but in my mind, I was judging people pretty regularly based on what I saw. If you were buying beer, you must be an alcoholic. If your clothes were unclean, you must be homeless. If you had green hair, you were just a rebellious person seeking attention.

I have grown so significantly in this area over the years. I have been so very blessed to actually get to know people who are alcoholics/addicts (both active and recovering), are homeless and some who even had green hair. What I learned through those experiences is that you should NEVER judge people by their outward appearances and sometimes not even by their outward actions. The reality is that all people feel pain, all people have hardships and some of us are just blessed to have family and friends to help us through those things where others are not so fortunate. And regardless of all of our individual experiences, we ALL need God.  In my heart I “think” I now treat all people the same – at least I try to. But still…when I read these scriptures it caused me to pause and think.

I know there are many, many scriptures that tell us we are to love everyone (even our enemies) but I never previously acknowledged or realized that treating any one person better than another – showing favoritism – is a sin (vs 9).

So the next time I pass someone on the sidewalk who ‘appears’ angry, unclean or unusual, I will once think of these scriptures and be reminded that no matter what our circumstances, EVERYONE is EQUALLY entitled to receive God’s grace and love and I am responsible for treating them as such.

Where Does My Strength Come From?

Philippians 4:13 – I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

* The verse starting with “I” is empowering ME with capabilities that I would not ordinarily have on my own.

* I had to stop for a moment this afternoon when I was feeling overwhelmed at work and remind myself that everything I “need” to accomplish, I can do through Christ. So I need to stop more frequently throughout the day to ensure my efforts are being done through Him – and ask myself – am I do everything as He would have me to do?

* Do I believe I can do ALL things through him? If my answer to this is not “yes” then I am putting limitations on God’s power. When I start having this doubt, I need to stop and make a list of the extensive list of things I could not have accomplished without God’s help to remind me that His power is without limits.

* HE strengthens me! When I am feeling worn, stressed or overwhelmed – am I stopping to ask for strength? Am I trusting and believing that He can strengthen me?

* I need to always be emotionally connected to Christ so that I can continue to be strengthened by Him. If I neglect my relationship with Him, I may forget that He is my source of strength. If I keep in constant contact with Him throughout the day, I will be in a much better position to maintain the strength I need throughout each day.

I am so very grateful that I don’t have to obtain strength on my own. I am blessed to have a God that always gives me exactly the strength I need!

Thoughts about Forgiveness

I just started a new activity of “Verse Mapping.” The radio station I listen to is having a “Forgiveness Week” so the scripture I memorized today:

Matthew 6:15 (NIV) But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

Here are the thoughts I had as I studied this verse today:
* The ‘you’ means “I” have a responsibility when it comes to forgiveness.
* My responsibility is not only about forgiving others but doing so to ensure MY sins are forgiven.
* ‘Others’ does not give us limited criteria of family or friends – it is all inclusive – EVERYONE.
* This gives us a clearly stated consequence – forgive or don’t be forgiven.

This reflection then led me to thinking about Matthew 6:12 which says:
And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.

This one hits me to the core – do I REALLY want to be forgiven as I have forgiven those who have sinned against me? If not, then I probably need to take a closer look at how I am forgiving others.